Remembering Sami: What Love Looks Like in the Long Goodbye
A story detailing the struggle of caring for a chronically ill and dying partner while managing life as an autistic, queer person of color in healthcare, and the loss that followed.
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A story detailing the struggle of caring for a chronically ill and dying partner while managing life as an autistic, queer person of color in healthcare, and the loss that followed.
This is a story about what happens when “inclusion” ends where power begins, and what it means to be seen as a threat simply for existing inside a system that was never built for you. The same workplace that celebrated me publicly began scrutinizing me privately - until I was no longer there at all.
This piece examines how lesphobia is laundered through progressive language, how predators exploit queer identity to evade accountability, and how lesbians are once again left to defend our humanity inside a movement that cries out for unity while refusing to hold itself accountable.
A "women-first" platform promised feminist refuge but recreated an old pattern of what happens when straight women center their male partners. This piece traces a long feminist history of sacrificing women's safety to center men's feelings.
A social media platform received FBI requests for user data and Feminists were left uninformed while admins debated how much data they could legally hand over. This piece documents how admin self-protection took priority over transparency, consent, and the safety of women on the platform.